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Answers to the "executive" social savvy test


1. The handshake originated _______________.

in England as a gesture of welcome
as a signal that your weapon hand was free and you were friendly
as a gesture of hospitality from the Native Americans
to differentiate the upper and lower classes

The correct answer is: as a signal that your weapon hand was free and you were friendly. It is believed that the handshake originated among the barbarians as a peaceful gesture when greeting someone. In the late 1800's it was fashionable to give a high handshake, at the level of your nose. Today, the handshake has been maintained as a sign of welcome, given at waist height.

2. When making introductions _________________.

the most important person's name is said last
a person with greater authority is introduced to one of lesser authority
the CEO of your company is introduced to a client
only names should be given, with no titles or references to professional or personal information

The correct answer is: the CEO of your company is introduced to a client. According to the rules of introductions, the less important person is always introduced to the more important person. For example, Joe Bob, the client is more important than Clayton Jones the CEO, in a business situation. Therefore, you would say, "Mr. Bob, I would like you to meet the CEO of our company Mr. Clayton Jones. Mr. Jones, this is Mr. Bob of Fisheries Incorporated, one of our best clients." The first answer is incorrect because the most important person's name always comes first. The last answer is incorrect because titles and references should accompany an introduction whenever possible.

3. What one accessory is a necessity in today's business wardrobe?

a trench coat
a watch
a daytimer, organizer or planner
one nice business suit

The correct answer is: a watch. Notice that the question asked what accessory. A watch is the first clue that you are punctual, organized and part of the corporate world. While the way you dress can vary from organization to organization, a watch is a universal necessity.

4. What percentage of each day is spent communicating?

35-40%
50-55%
60-65%
75-80%

The correct answer is: 75-80%. Research shows that 75-80% of each day is spent in oral communication. On a daily basis we ask and answer questions, talk on the telephone, participate in meetings, order at restaurants and give and receive advice. How you communicate in any and all of these areas can have a significant impact on your level of success in life.

5. You return from a business trip to 38 voice mails. Two days later you are still returning calls. You should ________________.

forget about calling, at this point it is too late
apologize and then get to your point
offer a lengthy explanation of your failure to call
have your assistant return the calls you could not

The correct answer is: apologize and then get to your point. You should have updated your voice mail message to let people know you would be out of the office for a specific period of time, so they do not expect to hear from you right away. It is best to return calls within 24 hours of your return to the office, however, even if it takes you two days to get back to them, that is still better than failing to return their calls. Do not give a lengthy explanation of your failure to call more promptly. They are busy too. Keep it short and get to the point. As a last resort, have your assistant return the calls you could not get to.

6. Human beings have the ability to listen __ to __ times faster than we speak.

1 to 3
2 to 4
4 to 6
10 to 12

The correct answer is: 4 to 6 times faster. In America, we live in an era of fast-paced technology. We have picture-in-picture television to watch two shows at the same time and DSL Internet to speed up the downloading of information. Understanding that we can listen and absorb information much faster than a person can communicate it is vital. We tend to finish someone's thought before they do or focus on our response without listening to what is really being said. The ability to listen effectively is an important element in the art of communication.

7. You are dining with a business associate. The first course is a salad. Above the plate you have a spoon, facing left, above the spoon there is a salad fork, facing right. To the left of the plate you have a dinner fork on the outside and a salad fork on the inside. Which utensil do you use?

the salad fork facing right at the top of the plate
the dinner fork at the left of your plate
the salad fork at the left of your plate
a knife at the right of your plate

The correct answer is: the salad fork at the left of your plate. A large number of the population including hosts, hostesses and restaurant staff have not been educated or trained in table settings. In this case, you know the utensils above your plate are for dessert and the salad fork is generally shorter than the dinner fork. The general rule is that you start from the outside in. If there is a mistake in the way the table is set, use the correct utensil, even if it is not in the correct position. Do not call attention to the mistake. You do not want to embarrass the host or hostess.

8. You are being served a five-course meal. Which of the following is normally served right before the main course?

an appetizer
sorbet
soup
salad

The correct answer is: sorbet. Sorbet is served before the main course to cleanse the palate, making it easier for you to experience the full flavor of the main dish. Sorbet is cold and tart and usually served in small portions at more formal meals.

9. The ideal amount of time to spend with one person when networking is _______.

just enough time to exchange cards and sales pitches
5-7 minutes
10 minutes
15-20 minutes

The correct answer is: 5-7 minutes. 5-7 minutes is enough time for you to introduce yourself, express your interest, ask one or two questions and build the foundation for future contact. Limiting the discussion, allows you the opportunity to talk to more people and to pursue further conversation at a later date. If the body language and conversation of the other person indicates they are open to further discussion, use your best judgment.

10. You are in the middle of dinner with a group of clients. The maître dí comes to your table and tells you that you have a call. You should _______.

ask the maître dí to take a message and apologize to your guests
excuse yourself and place your napkin on the table, to the left of your plate
excuse yourself and place your napkin on the back of the chair
not take the call because it would be rude to leave the table

The correct answer is: excuse yourself and place your napkin on the table to the left of your plate. Apologize to your guests for the interruption. They should understand that the call must be important. Ask your guests if they mind if you take it and finish the call as quickly as possible. Although opinions on napkin placement vary, ESP recommends you place your napkin on the table to the left of your plate when you excuse yourself or at the end of the meal. If you place your napkin on your chair, it may fall on the floor, stain the chair or stain your clothing if you sit on it by mistake. When you return to the table, apologize for your absence.



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